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Family of choice

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A family of choice, also known as chosen family, found family, or hānai family[1] is a term that refers to a non-biologically related group of people established to provide ongoing social support.[2]

A family of choice refers to a group of people bound by intentional and chosen relationships, with a focus on mutual love, trust, and commitment. This is in contrast to a "family of origin", the biological or adoptive family into which a person is born or raised. Families of choice are especially significant within the LGBTQ community, where individuals may face estrangement from their biological families. Families of choice may also be significant among veterans, survivors of addiction or childhood abuse, and tightly knit friend groups. By fulfilling the traditional roles of a family (providing emotional support, companionship, and a sense of belonging), a family of choice can be an affirming support system for those who may lack connection with their families of origin.

Family of choice in the LGBT community

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LGBT individuals in particular often seek out families of choice when ostracization by their families of origin leaves them in need of social support.[2] Many LGBT individuals face rejection or shame from the families they were raised in upon coming out.[1] Some research indicates that in the absence of social support by an individual’s family of origin, a family of choice can promote resilience.[2]

See also

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References

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  1. ^ a b Stitt, Alex (2020). ACT for Gender Identity: The Comprehensive Guide. London: Jessica Kingsley Publishers. pp. 372–376. ISBN 978-1785927997. OCLC 1089850112.
  2. ^ a b c Green, R J (Summer 2000). "'Lesbians, Gay Men, and Their Parents': A Critique of LaSala and the Prevailing Clinical 'Wisdom'". Family Process. 39 (2): 257–66. doi:10.1111/j.1545-5300.2000.39208.x. PMID 10907150.